finding love after heartbreak

Finding Love After Heartbreak

Are you longing for the relationship you know you deserve?

And ready to learn how to make it a reality?

Isn’t it time to stop struggling to find the LOVE you deserve? To figure out what you want in a partner and go out there and GET IT? To keep the past in the past and build healthy new relationships?

 

To be LOVED?

 

Truly joyful, happy relationships have two people that know what they want in their partners. They know the difference between infatuation and love. They know how to overcome the bumps in the road when they get to them.

 

They are FOCUSED on communication, intimacy, and keeping the spark alive. They know what they want from a relationship and what their partner wants as well. And because of this, their relationship succeeds in the long term.

 

And yet we tend to lose hope so easily when it comes to having a successful relationship. We give up because we think it’s too hard.

 

…PAST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE HURT US.

…WE DON’T KNOW WHAT WE REALLY WANT.

…WE DON’T UNDERSTAND BASIC COMMUNICATION PATTERNS.

Bill Lemley says, “When nobody around you seems to measure up, it’s time to check your yardstick.”

Do you know what you actually want in a relationship? Are you asking for too much?  Not enough?

Do you believe that you can have a successful long term relationship? Do you have faith that, even though you’ve had some bad relationships in the past, you can still have successful relationships in the future? And…do you know HOW to create those relationships?

Ask yourself…

  • Am I currently happy with my relationship?
  • Is my self esteem attracting me to others?
  • Are you loving your partner the way they want to be loved?
  • Would my life be better if I could answer the question, “Are You The One I Want?”

From the time we’re young, we’re implanted with false ideas of what it means to be in a relationship. We spend our entire lives looking for our “soulmate.”

False ideas like these:

  • “There’s nobody out there for me.”
  • “Only a few couples manage to achieve that.”
  • “I’ve never been in a happy relationship.”
  • “Love isn’t real.”
  • “Everyone gets divorced now, why even bother…”

It’s like living in isolation.

We desperately want to find the partner we deserve and BREAK THROUGH the past relationships that have held us back.

We need to figure out WHY we’ve made bad choices in the past and how to make better decisions in the future… so we won’t let anything stand in the way of the love we deserve.

But we don’t know how.

We feel stuck. Discouraged. Overcome by the weight of previous failed relationships.

But what if there were a solution?

A way to conquer our past relationships, understand the difference between infatuation and love, know what we want, keep the spark alive, and CONFRONT hurt and disappointment?

Now there is…